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January 30, 2017 By Sam Guzman 15 Comments

The Way of Peace: Finding Rest in an Anxious World

The world is in turmoil. Everywhere, people cry, “peace, peace.” But there is no peace. Our hearts are filled with anger, envy, violence, and anxiety. Every day, a tumultuous and passion-filled torrent of words and emotions gushes forth on the internet and across cable news networks.

We long for rest, for tranquility, but cannot find it anywhere. In their desperation, some would even impose peace by force, by beating their ideological enemies into submission—a bitter paradox if there ever was one.

The upheavals of the world are not random. They are simply a reflection of the emptiness and futile strivings of our own hearts. St. James the Apostle diagnoses the ills of our time:

What causes wars, and what causes fightings among you? Is it not your passions that are at war in your members?  You desire and do not have; so you kill. And you covet[and cannot obtain; so you fight and wage war.

Our passions are running wild, and they are killing us.

St. Paul’s Prescription

The way of the world is the way of anxiety and death, but the way of the Lord is the way of peace and life. The enemy of our souls is the one who sows enmity and hate and striving against one another. The only solution to the peace of the world is to find peace in our own hearts.

We have a natural tendency to think our own times are the worst that have ever existed. Yet, St. Paul lived in times that were more painful than our own. His whole world was in turmoil, with the Jewish authorities persecuting the burgeoning Church, heresies invading from all sides, and wayward Christians bickering and forming factions. In these trying circumstances, St. Paul labored tirelessly to preach the Gospel, a seemingly impossible task.

Wherever he went, he met adversity. He was relentlessly persecuted, beaten, stoned and left for dead, starved, shipwrecked, imprisoned, and maligned. If anyone had a right to be anxious and discouraged, it was St. Paul.

But that was not his answer. Despite the literal and figurative stormy seas that he encountered, St. Paul was always at peace. In his letter to the Philippians, St. Paul outlines his prescription for soul peace in troubled times.

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.

Rejoice Always

The very first thing St. Paul encourages is rejoicing. Be joyful. Let your joy shine from your face. Do not be discouraged or disheartened.

But how, you might ask, can one be joyful when there is so much pain and suffering the world? It is often easier said than done. The answer is simply because we serve a good God who loves mankind, and he has trampled down death by his own death on the Cross. We rejoice because we know that while we are daily surrounded by defeat, we serve Jesus Christ, who defeated defeat by being defeated—and rose victorious to die no more. It is in encountering the risen Christ, most especially in the Eucharist, we experience the joy of his victory.

Rejoicing is not optional for the Christian. In another letter, St. Paul tell us to “give thanks in all circumstances, for this is the will of God for you.” Give thanks in all circumstances. Not by finding something positive to be happy about in the mess, though there is nothing wrong with this, but rather giving thanks for the tribulations themselves. This is the sure way to joy and the highest form of thanksgiving. It is only possible by grace. Yet rejoicing, even in trials, is the path to peace.

Second, we are told to be gentle. Gentleness is not much valued in today’s world of swagger and machismo. Violence, both literal and rhetorical, rules the day. But it should never characterize the followers of the Crucified, who should be known for their meekness, humility, and gentleness towards all, espescially those who hate us or despise us—our enemies. Do not return cursing for cursing, no matter how tempting it may be, but rather bless those who malign and persecute you and pray for them, so that you may be truly the children of God, not in word only, but in reality. Peace starts with hearts full of peace, not vengance and retribution.

The third thing St. Paul exhorts us to is prayer. Only in opening our hearts to the Lord God will we find peace. A holy man once said, and I paraphrase, that looking for peace in external circumstances is foolish. They will never truly exist. The only peaceful place on earth is the heart when the Lord is there. It is only in communion with the Prince of Peace in our deepest heart that we will find the peace we so desperately crave.

And how to we come to know Christ? How do we abide in him as the branch abides in the vine? By prayer. “Pray without ceasing,” St. Paul tells us in another place. Prayer is the tuning of the heart to God. The more we grow in the awareness of his presence, the more our hearts will be at peace.

Finally, we are told to fill our minds with what is good and true. So often, we think entertainment is harmless. We believe all the “right” things, so we imagine we can consume whatever we want. This simply isn’t true. In a very real sense, we commune with what we consume. It becomes part of us. Watching endless violence and debauchery on TV is not harmless. Likewise, watching a 24 hour news cycle intent on creating feelings of dread and doom and filled with all the worst humanity has to offer is a quick recipe for anxiety.

St. Paul is clear: Don’t dwell on what is evil. You are taking this knowledge into yourself and it is becoming part of you. Neither can you ever expect to find peace by filling your mind with the horrendous acts that stream across the internet and cable news networks incessantly. Dwell on what is good and holy. Read and watch and consume what will elevate your mind and fill your heart with peace, for you will become what you gaze upon.

Heavenly Solutions for Earthly Problems

St. Paul’s solutions are not the world’s. The world says protect yourself at all costs. Stockpile food and weapons. Scream and riot and smash things. Write scathing editorials and angry polemics. Sign petitions and intimidate. Mock and humiliate. Yet, these false cures will never bring peace—only more emptiness and pain and anxiety. They are a foretaste of hell.

The way of the Lord is the way of peace. Rejoice. Be gentle. Pray. Think on what is good. And the God of peace will be with you always.

More reading: https://www.hmhb.org/anxiety/

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April 14, 2015 By Ben Ewing 7 Comments

Men of Iron (Iron Sharpens Iron, Part 2)

9dd7579936b7758d55d647c6b59da857As with many things in my life, I have given more thought to a recent post. I left you, the reader, hanging, and on purpose I might add. I wanted to follow up with another piece that expands upon a point that I made, but did not elaborate upon, and also add some more commentary that I feel is of vital importance physically and spiritually. I felt that I did not have enough space to get to the heart of the matter and would like to cover that now.

Before we enter into the spiritual truths to be drawn from of iron, let’s cover some basic metallurgy. There are many different phases in iron, but there are three main phases that I will focus on, which are ferrite, cementite and pearlite (which is a mixture of ferrite and cementite, but for the sake of argument I’ll list as another phase). I suppose one could say that pearlite “proceeds” from the cementite (God the Father reference) and ferrite (Jesus the Son reference)…but I dare not open up the Filioque can of worms at this point.

Let us get back to metallurgy. Ferrite is a very soft phase that is almost pure iron and, while it does have a minute amount of carbon, it is essentially free of any other elements. This makes ferrite soft, malleable, and easy to deform – not soft like Silly Putty, but on a relative scale in the metals world, it is soft. Cementite, on the other hand, is an iron phase that is very rich in carbon. This makes it hard, brittle, and quite difficult to work with. If one had a bar of pure cementite and were to strike it with a hammer hard enough, it would shatter like glass into thousand pieces.

Soft or Hard?

Now that we have some properties established for both the ferrite and cementite, let us delve a little further into the spiritual significance of pearlite, which completes the trifecta of phases. Think of ferrite as the Body of Christ. Christ was scourged, beaten and had his body deformed in all manners, yet not a bone in his body was broken. Ferrite will bend and deform under the load that is put to it and, while it does have a breaking point that all bodies do, that deformation is extreme. Just as Christ was put under the most extreme duress for all of mankind, he did not break.

Cementite is hard and unyielding and can, in a way, be likened to God in the Old Testament. A stiff-necked people required an even more unyielding God. (Do not read too much into that.) As with all human understanding, our thought processes are imperfect, and I’m sure there are inferences I have not thought of, nor could foresee with this metaphor. Suffice it to say cementite will not “yield” in the way the ferrite does.

Pearlite Means Just Right

At this point, something quite interesting happens when one combines the two phases of ferrite and cementite. One begins to combine the most agreeable properties of both phases and get a structure that is described as lamellar in nature. Students of the Roman Empire will understand lamellar armor and the layered bands of metal meant to protect soldiers. The pearlite phase has the same concept since it incorporates layers of both ferrite and cementite. Both phases alternate in varying orientations to provide an interesting structure that is both deformable and hard.

Where does this leave us spiritually? This “pearl of wisdom” should be pointing us to two natures we should seek to emulate. First the nature of ferrite is one of sacrifice. Being sacrificial in our lives is crucial, especially when we attempt to emulate Christ. Christ will hammer us in God’s forge as long as we submit to His will, so that we can be made more into His image and less in our own. The nature of cementite is one that does not yield, but in its own nature it can be brittle. The lesson to be learned is that we should be unyielding in moral principle and in our love for God, but we should not let the sin of pride harden us so much as to be shattered by this world. This is where the two natures of ferrite and cementite must meet: By tempering principle with sacrifice, we strengthen our lives, our families, and those around us.

Iron in the Blood

As with all of mankind, we need help and guidance to bring those two phases together, and what more perfect way than with the Blood of Christ? One of the most important elements in blood is – you guessed it – iron. Once again, iron figures into the spiritual and the physical aspects of our lives in a profound way. Iron helps transport oxygen to all the muscles and organs in our bodies, just as the Body and Blood of Christ sustain our spiritual needs. Christ truly becomes a part of us when we receive the Eucharist. Not only is He flowing through our veins, but in the truest sense, the iron nails that affixed Him to the cross and spilled His blood upon the earth are now a part of us.

To be honest, I feel beyond blessed to be able to share these thoughts with you. I have struggled for a while now to find the connection in my daily work and with the mission God has placed before me on this earth. It is truly an inspiration from the Holy Spirit to make these connections, and I hope they have given you some insight into just how deeply scripture runs. Once again, I pray that you are successful in becoming stronger in Christ through the sacrifice in your life and the unyielding thirst for what is right and just. May you receive the Body and Blood of Christ more humbly, knowing that, through something as simple as iron, there is the beating heart of Christ in all of us.

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Ben Ewing is a husband and father of two girls. He works as a Technical Director for a local iron castings company during the day and as Prince Charming from Cinderella or Kristoff from Frozen in the evenings. When he is not wearing feather boas and glittery crowns or getting his hands dirty in a foundry, he can be found roasting his own coffee blends or creating new recipes for home-brewed beer. Though he is a Coloradoan, he currently lives in northern Indiana with his wife, Jeannie Ewing, daughters, and dog (who is also female).

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April 6, 2015 By Ben Ewing 10 Comments

Iron Sharpeneth Iron

a406af0f3f62e511aefdaedc0be770afa“Iron sharpeneth iron, so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” Proverbs 27:17 (Douay-Rheims 1899 American Edition)

I’ve always enjoyed this scripture passage for several reasons. First, it drives home the point of being on guard and ready to debate and philosophize with our Christian brothers and sisters. Second, it’s an exhortation to keep close to our friends and support them when we know there are troubles brewing in their life. Last, it mentions iron. Yes, that may seem to be a shallow reason for inclusion, but most men are fascinated by metal, and by the end of this short musing you’ll see there is more to it than the first glance may expose.

Metal is my business. Understanding the physical, chemical, and mechanical properties on a daily basis is the currency that I deal in. That may seem miles away from scripture, but once again, one’s patience in setting up this line from scripture will certainly bear the fruit of a fresh perspective.

I would like to call your attention to one of the most obvious properties of iron that we can all, most likely, say we’ve seen: rust. Iron corrodes when exposed to the elements, and we’ve all seen the bright orange or red hues on our vehicles, on some sad piece of equipment rotting away in a field, or on a long-forgotten tool in our garage.

Do our souls bare the rust of abuse or neglect by being exposed to the elements of this world? Have we begun to corrode from the inside out? Do we maintain a shiny exterior only to know at the end of the day we allow the vitriol of sin to pit and crack our very conscience? We should ask ourselves all of these questions, and I pray that now we can begin to see the deeper significance of this line from Proverbs. Let us not become rusty through sin and neglect of the word of God.

There is another property of iron that bears mentioning, and that is the ability to abrade itself. As one takes two like pieces of iron (without getting too technical and for the sake of argument assume these pieces of metal are alike in all manner) and rub them together, one does not preferentially abrade the other. They both begin to wear upon the other and remove the surface impurities, defects and high spots until they become smooth.

Does it not seem then that, through this smoothness and removal of all defects, the iron shines brilliantly in the light of the sun? So, too, does our engagement with those who love Christ, especially priests, begin to abrade away our defects through constant challenging, admonishment, and confession. These acts leave us weary and worn – but worn to a brilliant sheen – so that we can reflect the dazzling light of the Son to others.

One final point I’d like to make is the wonder of God’s creation, especially when it comes to the order of nature. While the previous points show the properties of iron on a macro scale, it is the micro scale that things become even more interesting. There is a beauty and order that shows us that nature is most definitely not random.

Iron can be manipulated to have specific properties depending upon the composition, how it is cooled or heated, or even through mechanical manipulation. One of the common structures in iron is call Pearlite. If polished and etched, it appears as pearl or opal (hence the name). Viewed under a microscope, one can see layer upon layer of different iron phases that give this pearlescent look. While regarded as a cheap material, it can be a “pearl of wisdom” if one is willing to look for it.

Revisit some of your favorite lines of scripture, and realize that just like a macro view may give you one perspective, a microscopic view may give you an altogether unfathomable experience of God’s wonderful creation.

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